i have a tiny little demon down there I little six inch but a monster a tiny monster that had got me into trouble i tried to tame but unbrittled Alas! I cried Fate had it I am prince charming My friend had a damsel as a 5&6 he introduced her and she winked, did she just winked? I casually winked back oh! my head spun, I followed the rhythm foolish rhythm, rhythm of the body. As crash their body in romantic estasy, she grab my shirt in the dream land, as they gate crash their lips together, she woke me from slumber dipping into my short, she woke the giant in me, I responded, Great twist, the position changed, my lil thing another day. This day came, some close to dawn thing. Left my position, uncovered her, then we begun, we locked lips, it was slow and steady, I deactivated the kiss, she pulled me in for more kisses, meaning she loved kisses, I continued, I deactivated, she pulled me in and then it was a sail through, she dipped her small cartoonic hands to her destination, my tiny lil tiny but I whispered, wait! not yet. we kissed and smashed our body in rhetorical lyrics, she moaned as I dipped my hand in her clit, she was wet and without penetration, she had reach orgasm, to get me same, as I tried to put my little tiny in, Her skirt button were hard but it got opened at last, she screamed and the whole house agoged, it was a play and a game. I was the villain, she was the actor, my pals were the screen writer. she had pleasure with my foolishness, I was used, she was a Delilah and I was slaughtered like a foolish goat. it was planned. She was satisfied to have my body but must fulfill her pay masters task. I cried. hey boy, you think am disciplined, No! You think I am careful, No! You think I don’t want to have sexual estacy, No! Learn boy, emotion is weakness, Learn to Say No to it You little thing can destroy your all. you little 6 inches can lead you to Six feet. master the little things, tongue, penis, heart and brain. Don’t be used Son! Don’t be caught in the place of weakness. Master the little things.
As a young man born in the early 90s, I grew up in a middle class home and i don’t think there are middle class again in Nigeria. There was lot of complaint from the adults about dictatorship, Freedom of speech, poor health care, poor education system, bad roads, fuel hike and lot of industrial actions.
I can recount how we will go to food vendor to buy 10 Naira beans and rice. A derica of rice was #80 and beans was #50. We could hardly spend #50 at a sitting. In Lagos then, there was #50 bike from Haruna to Gospel Crusader street(somewhere around Ifako-Ijaye), we bought Kerosene for #50 a bottle (close to a liter/ measured with star bottle) and I know our parents bought pepper for 3 metal lid (lambebe) for #100. Coaster biscuit with 6 pieces for #5. My parents bought our land where we live now #10,000 and house rent was around #2000. Yet many of our parents complained about how hard life is.
A lot of people do not know that corruption and nepotism have a bad effect on us all. The rich do not know that they have become more poorer in 10 years. The thieves do not consciously know he needs to steal more to be able to live but his instinct knows. The millions of yesterday are now the billions of today. All of us are a part of the decay. Public office holders padding, Private firms bribing and laundering, Government workers and uniform men dishonesty and bribery. Ordinary citizens are worse. We all are the cause of our poverty. Nigeria is in a state of comma.
Today’s reality shows no more #5 biscuit again. #50 T-fare to anywhere is null and void. The pepper you buy for #100 now #250. 1 paint plastic of Garri is now #1200. Rice is #450 /Derica tin. #1000 is worthless, yet our politicians keep squandering funds. The ordinary man cannot afford rent a house again. House rents starts from #5000. I can count about 10 people who are owing up to 2 years rent and have been given quit notice. Feeding is a huge problem for the common man. Dollars used to be changed at #120, now changed at around #400 at the parallel market. Everyday ordinary Nigerians are losing their jobs as a result of the pandemic. Business owners and government don’t have money to pay more yet inflation ravage the land. The government doing so many things with no effect on the value of Naira.
The ordinary man is asking unanswered questions, am i a Nigerian? Am i part of the plan of the government? How do i survive tomorrow? Is there truly a future for me and my children? As the pandemic keep ravaging our country, let us know if government don’t do something fast and unemployment soar, then poverty will be abundant, crime will flourish, suicide will rise and illiteracy will be abundant. Beware!!!
It has been a long year and we are all in the face of this pandemic called Covid19. We are anxious and obnoxious about the virus. A lot of try and error happening across the world, we are all looking forward to cure and vaccine, in the middle of all the events people are dying, many are losing their jobs and businesses are crashing. This is a quick diagnosis of the impact of Covid19 on Nigerian businesses.
Retrenchment: The pandemic came with a shock for many firm in Nigeria without business continuity plan or contigency plan, we all were forced to stay at home. This has led to a shut down of a few firm and leading to people losing their jobs. According to Xinhua, 40 million Nigerians may lose their jobs at the end of this year. A whooping 40 million uemployed in the Nigerian market means increase in poverty and insecurity. As Kola Aina said, “Every entrepreneur should do long term thinking and short term planning”.
Business closure: Many businesses are closing down, a lot of businesses using loan to stay in business got shut down because they could not do business for weeks leading to no revenue and they did not have a plan to pivot. The tourism and hospitality cannot operate normally as before, there are no checking in from foreign experts and corporate travellers have reduced, as we all now attend meeting using cloud video conference platforms. The Aviation sector is getting it biggest hit in decades. Only cargo and special flights are in the sky. MSMEs are struggling to keep afloat, over 3 million SMEs in Nigeria according to SMEDAN, many of which cannot access loan or pillative to stay in business. The base of our economy are shaking and government must now pay attention to them else there is a fire on the mountain.
Economy: The Nigerian economy has enjoyed and lavish the days of oil plenty and boom. We are now in the middle of a pandemic which has hit the oil industry to its lowest, the naira currrency is confused as we speak and cost of governance remain high. The effect of this is making DSTV drop right of televising premier league and champions league. The premier league right will continue to increase at a steady 8% yet DSTV cannot increase subscription by 8% coupled with naira dropping value continuously. Many tech startup that buy lot of online services in dollars and charge customers in Naira now know that there is a cut in profit or even may be loss. Recently @oluyomiojo tweeted this ” Just a reminder that $50k Harvard online classes tuition ——> N22,500,000 (in today’s money) N18,000,000 (2019) N7,500,000 (2014) Yeah. That the tweet”
The reality of the poverty of Nigeria is reflected in the value of Naira.
At the base of these as we open our economy and begin to live with the pandemic is the question will the government save businesses or their pocket? Will the government revive the economy or their greed? Will government put people or themselves first? This is the time to think and act. The rich is getting poorer only that it may not be visible.
Update:
COVID-19 Case Updates- 6thJuly 2020
Total Number of Cases – 29,286
Total Number Discharged – 11,828
Total Deaths – 654
Total Tests Carried out – 152,952
According to the NCDC, the 575 new cases were reported from 20 states- Lagos (123), FCT (100), Delta (58), Edo (52), Ogun (42), Katsina (24), Bayelsa (23), Rivers (22), Borno (19), Plateau (18), Ondo (18), Oyo (17), Kwara (15), Osun (13), Enugu (9), Nasarawa (7), Abia (6), Cross River (5), Kaduna (3), Ekiti (1).
Meanwhile, the latest numbers bring Lagos state total confirmed cases to 11,367, followed by Abuja (2,281), Oyo (1,530), Edo (1,435), Delta (1,285), Kano (1,268), Rivers (1,205), Ogun (1,047), Kaduna (868), Katsina (628), Borno (547), Gombe (520), Bauchi (516), Ebonyi (503), Ondo (474), Plateau (454), Abia (391), Enugu (381), Imo (352), Jigawa (318).
The COVID-19 pandemic ravaging the nations of the world has resulted to governments of nations enforcing lockdown in order to curtail the spread of the virus. The Federal Government of Nigeria has in the past six (6) weeks enforced lockdown in states like Lagos, Ogun and FCT with an exemption of essential services like food businesses, healthcare-related businesses and workers, etc. Of a truth, farmers, traders, food processors, aggregators, etc. in the agricultural sector were exempted from the restrictions. However, reports show that there has been a strain on the food system. Some of the challenges faced by the agricultural sector are logistics, limited access to markets and farms, price spikes, access to inputs by farmers, amongst others. The effect of the challenges faced by the food system is felt by the residents of the states
In a bid to understand the major food items and agricultural services needed by people this season, Zohee Foods set out to collect data, get insights and make recommendation on how agripreneurs, foodpreneurs and farmers can make food items available this season.
The aim of the survey was to determine the type of agricultural services(s) and food stuffs option(s) people require this season.
2.0Result and Discussion
2.1Demography
The survey is dominated by respondents from Lagos and Ogun state while others are from Osun, Enugu, Delta, Ekiti, Ondo and Oyo states respectively. About 72% of the respondents are within 26-35 years of age; 15% are within15-25 years while 8% and 4% are within 36-45 years and 46-55 years respectively.
From the survey, it can be discovered that majority (72%) of the respondents are within 26-35 years of age which signifies that the survey is dominated by the youths.
Figure 1: Age Distribution
2.2Food Items Required During the Lockdown
As shown in Figure 3, it was observed that the major food items required by the respondents are Garri, White rice, Pepper, Cooking oil, Vegetables, Fish, Onions, Eggs, Yam and Fruits. Others include Meat, Indomie/spaghetti, plantain, Yam flour, Semo etc.
Figure 3: Food Stuffs Required during the COVID-19 Lockdown
Furthermore, based on location analysis as shown in Figure 4, it was observed that the major food items required in Lagos state are Garri (41%), White rice (38%), Cooking oil (36%), pepper (36%), beans (35%), vegetables (29%), Fish (29%) Eggs (29%), Onions (27%), Meat (26%), Fruits (29%), yam (25%). In Ogun state, the major food items needed are White rice, Garri, Beans, vegetables, pepper and Fruits.
Figure 4: Distribution of Food Items Required by States
2.3Other Agricultural Services Needed in the Lockdown
Below are some of the agricultural services needed by the respondents during the COVID-19 Lockdown.
Agricultural investment opportunity
Establishment of Daily Consumables Depot in each ward across the states and country at large. Access to the above must be enhanced by government at a far reduced price.
Provision of planting materials such as seeds, fertilizers etc. to farmers during this lockdown so as to make food available even after the lockdown due to the restrictions of movement
Community deliveries of a particular produce
Increase in mechanized farming
Reduction in cost of fertilizer
Marketing of farm produce
2.4Home Delivery Option
A significant number (80%) of the respondents stated that they support home delivery this season while about 14% are not sure and 6% do not support home delivery this season. This can be linked to the lockdown, concern for coming in contact with a virus carrier or social distance policy.
Figure 5: Support Home Delivery
3.0Conclusion
This study concludes that the food items required by people during this COVID-19 pandemic lockdown are Garri, White rice, Pepper, Cooking oil, Vegetables, Fish, Onions, Eggs, Yam and Fruits. Others include Meat, Indomie/spaghetti, plantain, Yam flour, Semo etc. Also, home delivery option is accepted by consumers this period.
Recommendation
Foodpreneurs and agripreneurs should invest more in making available the major food items
The government can make available seedlings or deport where food items from the farmers can be made available for consumption
Foodpreneurs and agripreneurs can partner with logistics companies in delivering food items at consumers’ homes.
Why do men cheat on their spouse? Is polygamy the true nature of men? Can men be faithful in a relationship? What exactly is the cause of this trend among men? What are the women doing wrong to deserve this from men or are women guilty of sexual immorality too?
I went home to celebrate the burial of one of my aunt who passed on last weekend, she lived to an old age but it was a tragic death. She was tortured by Mr sickness before she finally passed on. Everybody was wailing and crying at her grave side. I helped with getting the coffin into the ground and positioning as the casket needed to sit well and align Because the grave was drugged for two. I almost cried as I was coming out of the pit dugged for her body, as I heard everyone sobbing and grinding teeth and emotionally bidding farewell. You will think that day was a bad and gloomy day.
Fast forward to 2 hours, everyone was dancing and spraying money at the reception. Many drank themselves to stupor. At about 5:43pm we drove back home, while we were driving home in a blue fine elegant Toyota Siena one of my uncle had bought this conversation happened. The car was filled with 10 men, i was the youngest. We have 6 married and 4 unmarried men.
They discussed about how women were the necessary evil they needed to keep life going. One spoke of how he and James shared a girl called Khadijat and she did not know. He called Sade one evening and she said she was with her boyfriend, who was this boyfriend, the boyfriend was James. Many times after every round of sex James and Ayo will meet and have drink to discuss, laugh and mock Sade.
Sex
Jaye then spoke of how many girls and women he had sex with every week. He even showed evidence. One called him while driving and was showing him her naked body (breast, vagina and all) and another who was sleeping with her junior sister in the room, watched carefully that the junior ones were far asleep, she then brought out her two breast and started fiddling with them. Then he said the most disgusting thing i ever heard, women were made for us to have pleasure (in local language).
Shola said I used to come home late before my wife complained to my dad, I promised I will change to come home early enough. Now I have changed, I come home early in the morning the next day, is that not early enough? We all laughed. While all this was going on in the car, we were all laughing intermittently. We discussed this till my Uncle said Tobi is in this car o, you people will spoil Tobi, he is a good boy, at his age he still does not want to have sex, his wife that would have been a prey to somebody like us? I have told him no woman wants a nice man like him, you need to be a man with a lion heart.
I kept mute and many thoughts in my head. I am bounded by the bro code, I am also in thought of why are men treating their lovely wives like this? Many of the wives of these men I know to be prayerful, godly, caring and all. I also thought of what kind of husband I will be when I marry? Is marriage not over rated? Who is to be faulted? Well, my father told me something before he died, he said, “a man who has not been to cross is a Fox, he could be Fox in sheep cloth (pretender) or a wild Fox. A man that has been to the cross is a King.” Everyone pray for the Proverb 31 woman but who will be Lemuel of Proverb 31:1-9.
The world needs real father, the world is bleeding for lovers of their home. The world needs you to step into the shoe of a father whose life his children can emulate, simulate and copy. The world is looking for parents who will raise world change makers. Men who will teach the scripture and communicate God’s revelation to their family. Men who will flee fornication, adultery and immorality to raise a child to fulfill God’s purpose.
Truly prick no get shoulder but the result of prick can destroy a Destiny.
What is the relationship between sex and intelligence? Why are intelligent people hyper sexual but engage in less sex? Does random sex mean less intelligence? Why do intelligent people have high libido? I am curious and i seek answers. Let dive in…
There must be an explanation to the fact that most intelligent people have high sexual drive but the irony is they engage less in sex. History has it that Tesla, Cavendish and Newton had less sex.
According to one science blog, Medical Daily, “new research by sex toy retailer, Lovehoney, found a correlation between high sexual libido and elevated intelligence,” however that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re having more sex.
Many intelligent people has high sex drive but have less sex, may be they are too pre-occupied with fulfilling purpose and achieving a goal that they give up their sexual pleasure to deliver on success. They are most time focused on learning new skill or solving a problem to the point they are may not able to be 101% committed to their sexual partner.
It not that this is really great, we all need to aspire for balance in our life. I am just curious that many intelligent people in history are not people who love random and frequent sex.
Using the 2011 National Survey of Family Growth in the United Kingdom, Friedman reveals “men with college degrees are half as likely to have had four or more partners in the last year as men with a high school education alone.” According to Carolyn Halpern, who teaches at the UNC School of Public Health, “a high concentration of teen virgins [were] at the top of the intelligence scale.”
The high performing young people in high school were most times not yet sexually active this may not necessarily mean that this translate to intelligence but one thing I want to note is sex has to do with emotions, for the inactive teen he or she has a focused attention devoid of distraction. The active person has image distractions of sexual encounters he or she has most time even when reading. He or she trying to compare the best sexual experience he had with several sexual partner and if they are in a relationship they are emotionally attached to their girlfriend or boyfriend.
While certain types of people seem to be naturally drawn to the idea of producing offspring and engaging in sexual encounters, others are more concerned with refining their own skills.
It seems like this might be the tradeoff that intelligent people make when they decide to focus on specializing some aspect of their own being — whether it’s inventing, like Tesla — or mastering laws of physics like Sir Isaac Newton.
My mind tells me that intelligent people like Tesla, Newton and Cavendish were simply too preoccupied with other aspects of their life to be worried about sex.
Most innovator and creatives are very emotional, to be creative there is natural flow of empathy to solve user’s problem. This makes the innovator the best to be in relationship. Spouses to creatives, innovators, and persons with high IQ must understand them properly to be able manage them when they want to concentrate and when they want to concentrate on an idea.
My advice when you get into relation with an intelligent, creative and innovative person please take note it is not a normal relationship, you chose this person because you want to change the world with them, you believed in their vision, dreams and aspirations before you got into a relationship with them, then kindly help be the best spouse you can always be. Many creatives are depressed and emotionally stressed because they are fighting criticism inside and outside, you are the shock absolver, you must be a whole positive vibe and a self-motivated person that always see positivity in all negatives.
When the creatives achieve a goal, they will always want to have the best time with you, they will do anything you want them to. We love to have sex and sex is good for us to stay mentally alert. So, bring it on, we love it crispy, fresh and new but not every day.
Finally, the fact you like random sex does not mean you are not intelligent. But, for now, if you’re not having much sex — let’s just say you are an intelligent genius and leave it at that.
I know we all feel konji, we all desire to be cuddled and be handled with care. We crave to be intimate with one person and still know that the person loves us beyond sex. Then why will they say don’t have sex before marriage? Is it because of STIs? Is it because of pregnancy? Is it because they don’t want us to enjoy what they enjoy?
There is a difference between panda(fake jewelry) and 32 carat precious stone. You can find fake jewelry on the street and everywhere. It cost not much, the seller does not need insurance, security, or a nice environment. It does not need beautiful and customer hospitable sale attendants. Are you panda or a precious stone?
Common jewelry for all asundry🤔
A 32 Carat precious stone is kept away from all. The owner or seller knows not all can afford. The seller acquire insurance against theft to secure investment. He employs security guard and use CCTV to monitor the precious stone. The seller in addition goes as far as employ beautiful sale persons to sell to the highest bidder or the person that can pay matching price. To shock you there are classes of jewelry, some are 4- carat, 16- carat, 24- carat, 32-carat, and some diamond stone. The highest the class of precious stone the higher the care(security) given to it.
Heart shaped Diamond precious stone😍
He has given you a choice, are you panda or precious stone?
The book of books call us Royal priesthood, Holy city, fearfully and wonderfully made, the apple of God’s eye. God is the owner of the shop. He made and secured you for the real buyer. The issue of abstaining from sex is a thing of Choice. Only the strong hearted can make the decision.
A lot of you of young people instead of finding joy in themselves, find it in another person, God hate the outcome of premarital sex on you(spiritually, physically, psychology and more).
The writer is no perfect and he has fallen several times and still standing. 28 year counting. I invite you on a journey with no tears. We cannot do it on ourselves, we have the power to stand because we receive grace from the cross of Christ. The best book says He loves us when we were yet a sinner? God hate what premarital sex does to you.
N.B:
Still forth night, we will talk about Me, Sex and spouse.
I am the ocean In a moment I am rushy In a moment I am calm I am the wind In a moment I am turbulent In a moment I am breezy I am the market In a moment I am choking In a moment I forgot you came I am the coin In a moment I am the tail In a moment I am the head I am the ladder In a moment I am up In a moment I am down I am the universe In a moment I am dark In a moment I am light I am life In a moment you are alive In a moment you are dead Be careful with me else In a moment you could be forever In a moment you could be forgotten I am mysteriously mysterious Because I am a moment
THOUGHT FROM A GOLDEN PEN 